Stand By Your Man...Unless He's Ashley Cole...

...or any guy for that matter.

It's official: Girls Aloud singer Cheryl Cole took back her cheating, arsehole, crap footballer husband Ashley Cole. I had such high hopes that she'd leave him for good. Any man crazy enough to ever cheat on her, of all women, should not deserve such forgiveness. Please, the man paid hush-money to his one-night-stands, who claim that he was vomiting like a baby whilst in bed with them. How bloody embarrassing is that?

It almost angered me when I first heard of this from an article in The Sun. Come on, Cheryl, I thought you knew so much better than that! What happened to all that 'if he cheats on me, he'll be dead' talk from last year? Things change when you are actually married and when it actually happens I suppose, but I find that infidelity is not just a mistake. It's disrespect to the person you love by betraying them in the worse way possible. If you love a person so much, why on earth would you sleep with some slag you found in a club? And for a "class" footballer, why get so drunk? It only proved my point more that Ashley Cole, or what I like to call him "Cashley A.Hole", is a wanker that does not deserve to play in a big club with an even more greater wife.

I have always made it very clear that if a man would ever cheat on me, he would be kicked out of the house and to never return again. It's the biggest insult to me, to my family, and lastly, to himself. He obviously doesn't love me that much, or even at all, if he was to ever lust after another woman. As much as I don't think I'm that great of a person, I know that I deserve much more than a cheating scumbag that does not take my love and marriage seriously.

I can't ever understand why women take back their two-timing men because 'they really love them'. How can you love such a person? A person that doesn't really love you back? I know I have no right to judge other people's marriages, but the pieces just don't fit, and I guess I will never truly understand.

I apologize for this tirade, but the issue of infidelity has always been something that I have been extremely opinionated about, and this Cole affair has only made me express my opinions on it even more.